We’re Financially Drowning! (Question Fridays)

Q: Hi, so I have been trying to talk to my husband about his spending. We are newlyweds and I am starting to realize we never talked about finances. I am very organized with my money, and my husband doesn’t seem to keep track of his. We have separate accounts, and I’m glad it’s that …

Caught Him Lying and Think He’s Having an Affair (Question Fridays)

Q: So I caught my husband lying the other day about who he was talking to on the phone with. I heard a woman’s voice and they were talking secretively. My husband thought I was outside but I came in for water and heard him in the other room. I asked who he was talking with …

My Husband is an Alcoholic, But Won’t Admit It (Question Fridays)

Q: Hello, I have been known my husband for fifteen years and over time I’ve noticed that his behavior with drinking has gotten out of control. We used to drink socially fine, but over the past year he drinks alone, and often drinks to the point of getting drunk. I’ve tried addressing the topic, and …

Caught Her Texting Her Ex (Question Fridays)

Q: I’ve been with this girl for almost a year now. I love her and we are thinking about getting a place together. The other week I caught her texting her ex. I said that it made me uncomfortable, and she said that they had only been talking that day because of an inside joke …

My Boyfriend Raped Me, and I Don’t Know What To Do… (Questions Fridays)

Q: So I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and things have been going well, but two nights ago my boyfriend raped me. I had had a long day and told him I didn’t want to have sex when we started making out, and he said he was fine with that. We …

Is She Cheating? (Question Fridays)

Q: I have been with my wife for five years now, and we’ve known each other for thirteen years. We have a solid relationship. We have sex, we talk, we enjoy our own friends, we each have great careers. We even were talking about starting a family. Just last week I had left work early …

Mismatched Sex Drives (Question Fridays)

Q: This may be an awkward question, but I have a much higher sex drive than my husband. He never initiates, and we’ve been married for a while and we don’t have sex nearly as much as I’d like. We used to have sex all the time, but now it’s like he seems content to …

Boundaries and Avoidance (Question Fridays)

Q: I have tried stating my boundaries about what I am and am not okay with in our relationship, but he just dismisses them and says I am over reacting and controlling. I’ve tried explaining that I think that we need to talk about it, but he just avoids the conversation, I don’t know what …

He Never Spends Time with Me (Question Friday)

Q: I love my husband so much, but I don’t feel loved by him. He is a great husband and father. I know he does things around the house to help out, but he never spends time with me. How do I get him to spend more time with me? A: The question above sounds like …